Anyways, i just finish watching "the ugly truth".
The female lead was a "control freak". And it was mentioned that men are AFRAID of women who are control freaks.
So it actually hook up my interest to know more about the term, "control freaks".
1. So what are control freaks?? - Wikipedia
"control freak is a derogatory term for a person who attempts to dictate how everything around them is done. It can also refer to someone with a limited number of things that they want done a specific way"
"In some cases, the control freak sees their constant intervention as beneficial or even necessary; this can be caused by feelings of superiority, believing that others are incapable of handling matters properly, or the fear that things will go wrong if they don't attend to every detail. In other cases, they may simply enjoy the feeling of power it gives them so much that they automatically try to gain control of everything around them."
Ok, if you need a illustration or example...
- They want to have a list/way/manner/method of how a certain thing SHOULD work.
- They believe they know everything and they are always right.
- They believe when it comes to handling certain things, you NEED their help.
- They think you are always wrong.
- They love to made the decisions for you.
2. So according to another article which i dig up, which one paragraph have shown whether you are actually being control by a control freak:
Other "symptoms" to help you see that you're dealing with a controlling person:
- You don't like yourself when you're around the controller.
- You are very self-critical and self-conscious around the controller.
- You walk on eggshells a lot.
- You feel as though you can never do enough, say enough, give enough, improve enough or sacrifice enough to make the controller happy.
- You behave differently around the controller than you do around other people.
3. So here is a quiz for you to take to see how much of a control freak you are.
And to be honest, am only 12%.
4. How about control freaks MEN? Being in love with a control freak man is a total danger.
"Let's say you have short hair. The control freak will say something to you like "I like your hair better when it's long." The next time he will say, "Don't ever cut your hair short again or I will leave you." In order to control you this man will try and tear your self-esteem down. Look at it this way; lets say you are a building that wants to be the tallest building in town. You have two choices. You can build yourself up or tear the other buildings down. The controlling man tears everyone around him down to build himself up."
Jesus (for this 5 mins of my life i am willing to 100% to fully believe in you) PLEASE let me get the hell out of control freaks. Because there is one right beside me, everyday. alright no weekends though.
I just don't like to do EVERY SINGLE THING in a fix way.
I love flexibility and efficiency. So theres no way i can get along with a control freak, unless i pay for the psycologist medical fees.
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I finish watching [ 2012: end of the world ] too.
I love all the animations and stuffs. they looked real.
And i guess it really bring fear to people. Like earth quakes, tsunami etc.
This are natural disaters in the past, which occur once in awhile seems to be a "healthy" thing to earth.
But when it happens constantly, one after another, it become a symptom of earth's death.
Seriously the message behind was to illustrate how the world end will roughly look like.
All civilizations, people's hard work, ancestor's hard work will all be gone.
The worse part is, human race might even be wiped out.
And the animals?
The plants?
So yep, we are warned already. the movie shows a good happy ending where there are survivors. But in real life, i doubt so. the tsunami in the movie is 20K metres tall WTF.
They ending up survive with a big ship.
means flying, walking or small ships cannot survive.
Not being a pessimistic, but there is a possible chance that human race will be wiped out if it really happens.
But i agree with part of the movie which was: If we can only save an amount of people, we really need to save people who are capable. Eg. Doctors, politicians, scientist. ETC.
If not, even if we survived, we don't have people like them, we will die eventually.
And in the movie, they are being observed and chosen by the high ranks.
Yes, its unfair. The U.S president in the movie actually intend to make a lottery.
To let all people in US have a equal chance.
But practically, they really need people who are capable.
So yep, lets really hope that HUMAN can change, to give earth a chance to survive.
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